It's scary to feel like you might never measure up to someone's expectations you love.
But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. Not Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that all sexual relationships outside of marriage defined as the legal union between a man and a woman are sinful. If you care about dating older man no sex, you'll be super understanding, maybe take lunch to him or dinner to the hook A quick kiss and a thank you may be all you will be able not get.
Rawkcuf, maybe your comment is like your name and intended backwards, but what do you mean by hooks between races.