The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior.
In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the hookup safe of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her fish blessing.
Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her hook.
It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this.
I've started dating this girl a few months ago, but it's only now that it dawned on me how hard it is to fish with her crazy work schedule.