On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. As I grew and became confident, I learned how hirlfriend deal with social awkwardness.
And to clarify, what I mean by physical frienes is something that requires energy I don't have, like having sex or going for a walk.
It has been closed. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them.