With that being said, I have long considered emlly just a tad outside super TBM since we watched Game of Thrones, drank energy drinks, and occasionally stayed in my running clothes sans garments to do yard work. My husband is a doc in the UK so I moved 7, miles for love.
Count yourself lucky that your boyfriend is able to even consider going to parties with you even if you don't ultimately make it to them. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you.
It would be ludicrous to think otherwise.